Showing posts with label potty drama. Show all posts
Showing posts with label potty drama. Show all posts

Monday, January 11, 2016

Alice Goes Potty

For Christmas, instead of Santa bringing her diapers - he brought her panties. She was unimpressed. Her 'scary' fairy, Nixie, also brought her panties. I did not have the camera ready for the Santa reaction, however, Aunt Tami was prepared for the second panty find.


Classic. 

You might wonder why the fictitious characters were the ones to bring her panties. Because her parents didn't want any of that blame! No ma'am! Let her be angry at them! We're no dummies! 

We started potty training the Monday after Christmas with the goal of starting 2016 diaper free.




The first day went about as well as we thought it would.

In nothing but a shirt and a diaper, we put her on the potty every 15-30 minutes. Nothing. 

And then she went on the floor. She did not like that! It only happened twice. Then she started going when we put her on the potty.




Day two was better! She seemed to be getting it.....mostly. There was only one accident. 

Day three we had no accidents! 

She remembered every time to tell us when she needed to go.

We spent New Years eve and day at Nana's. This was going to be a big test because we were going to be away from home and around lots of distracting people. So we packed lots of clothes, expecting lots of accidents. She only had one! That was it! 

She started back to school this week and so far, so good. She told her bff, Chloe that she's a big girl now so she wears panties. And every time she goes - she HAS to tell EVERYONE in the vicinity that she just "pee-peed in da potty!" Bless. 

She had to use the potty at Daddy's school this weekend. She handled that like a pro.

Now with the glitches. 

She only goes when she thinks she's ready to go which could be ALL DAY. It's currently 1:50 pm - she still hasn't gone all day. She's been drinking - but not going. And if she doesn't think she needs to go - besides it being a huge meltdown and possible physical fight - sitting her on the potty is useless. The child will sit there for hours and not go. Her commitment game is strong. This is completely contradictory of how her Daddy operates. I am thankful she has my bladder.

Pooping. She still isn't a big fan of pooping in the potty. She has pooped in her pants twice. When we can tell that's what she is about to do, we put her on the potty and she doesn't do it. She'll hold it until her tummy hurts. I don't know how to fix this. The first time, it wasn't a big deal. However, she did it over the weekend and we were not impressed. 

The biggest potty battle we face is washing her hands. Seriously. It's not hard. It doesn't hurt. But Little Miss Drama has a huge scene every time we tell her to wash her hands. This is also completely contradictory of how her Daddy operates. 

For the few mishaps, she is doing really good. She sleeps in pull-ups mainly because we have them and she's been really good at letting us know when she has to go.  I was in the shower last week and she went all by herself. It made me proud and a little sad. We removed the changing table from the top of her dresser. Now it's just a dresser. It kind of makes me wish we had started earlier. But mostly not.

She's turning in to such a big girl and there is nothing I can do to slow it down. This isn't bad! It's just bittersweet. 

This is her singing on the potty. She sings or reads - it's adorable. 

But we're biased. Mostly we think everything she does is adorable. Mostly.


So we started 2016 diaper free! And we have only had to throw away one pair of pretty panties. We know there will still be some learning and we will have some accidents, but we're pretty proud of how well she's doing. (And I totally understand that by typing these words - I am jinxing everything. You would think I would know better by now. Yeesh.) 

While she does her business, we leave her alone mostly. And sometimes when we come back - we find her like this....


Our silly Little Bitty.

Until next time.....

Thursday, December 17, 2015

Potty Problems

I'm not sure if you can guess this from my previous posts but our sweet child is a bit strong willed. And when she is committed to a cause - there is no changing her opinion. Until you can find the right switch to flip or until SHE is ready - her commitment stands.

And she is currently committed to NOT using the potty. 

COMPLETELY against it. 

We encourage, I take her with me to the potty, we bribe. Nothing. We have a potty chart with princess stickers - she successfully added three stickers and then quit. We have a singing Elmo potty book that we ALL KNOW THE WORDS TO NOW. And she sits and sings - but doesn't go. 

I tell her we're going to leave her diapers off and she's going to wear panties and she FREAKS OUT. Full on meltdown mode. 

I don't know ANYTHING about potty training. Nothing. However, I don't feel like physically fighting with her to get her on the potty is going to help. We put her on the potty and she sits there crying for as long as we leave her there. As soon as she's back in her diaper - she goes. 

People say to take a few days where you're not going to leave and just let her run around with nothing on. 
1. This is a busy time of year and we have something every weekend so that's hard.
2. She's going to LOVE being naked. I'm never going to get her to keep her clothes on after that. 

She's also anti diaper changes so now that's a battle as well. I end up having to tell her she can't do or have whatever it is she wants until her diaper is changed. "UGH! Pine!" (that's how she says 'fine') Y'all, she's 3.

During diaper changes, she complains that the wipes or my hands are cold. I tell her, "you know what's not cold?! Toilet paper!" Now when she says it, I ask her what's not cold. Her response, "*sigh* toiyet papea." EXACTLY! 

Yesterday I told her she won't be allowed to go to the 3's class until she can use the potty. "WHY NOT?!" she says. "Those are the rules" I say. "But Hailey has diapers!" she responds. This is actually not true - Hailey has a good mom and has been potty trained since last year. 

And then this morning OUT OF THE BLUE she asks when we're going to see Santa. EVERY TIME I mention Santa - she says, "NO!! No see Santa! He scary!" However, this morning she wants to see him. I say, "ok, we'll try to see Santa this weekend. What are you going to ask for?"

Her: ummm......a book!
Me: okay, what kind of book?
Her: a pink one! And I will wub it and it will be my paborite! (favorite)
Me: okay! Anything else?
Her: umm.....pay-doh.....umm....toys!...annnnnnnd......DIAPERS!!

*sigh*

I told her teachers about our potty discussions and they said the group of kids she plays with are actually all in diapers so maybe that's it. 

I think she's just trying to drive me crazy. She's know she's supposed to so she's hell bent on not doing it. 

Lord, give me strength. 

And Santa - don't be an enabler! Get her big girl panties instead! 

Maybe I can get Santa on my side.....

Until next time......